Writing is therapy. Writing is a way to get things out. I like to post and write on here because I don’t think many people read it. I feel like I get to just say whatever and it just goes out to the internetz.
Today I am working. At a coffee shop – I have a few hours before I pick the kid up again from school. I don’t want to work. I don’t want to do anything.
I am such a downer lately I don’t even want to talk to my friends because I feel like I am complaining too much. There is a sense of loss of control (still) and confusion in my expectations (whatever those are).. and doubt.
Doubt sucks. I don’t know the purpose of doubt. It’s not helpful. It causes worry, anxiety… I guess at the root of it, doubt is fear. And fear is there to show you what you are insecure about.
The insecurities are growing. As a mom, as a partner, as a person. Since becoming a mom and becoming a shell – I am really struggling to have a positive happy attitude. Gratitude is a great place to start. I like to say fake it till you make it but what if you fake it till you break it?
Sometimes I feel really broken… even in a temporary state. I appreciate my life and I am doing the best I can with what I have. That’s all I can do.